• When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate now knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

*look up* its shidahh. i shed wif tears of wat she sms mie up dis morn. im totally touched wif her sms.

dis is wat she sent to mie;

~hello! sorry to disturb you sleeping. well beb, onlyy god know how muchh i mis you. i miss de nite chats, nite calls, nite webcam, gossip among us & camwhored etc. i never feel mad at you abt de incident dat happened recentlyy. i want to be alone & go awayy from myy bestfriend including chacha. i want ppl to understand mie & i also need to to understand other ppl situation. i know you had been patience so do i. i told you dat i dun have friends except youu. i never hate you or wat. when i read ur blog, i feel abit down coz i can't help n listen tou your probs. i hope you stayy strong. dosen't mean im far from myy bestfriend i don't feel sad & down. cume allahh saje yg tahuu. i tahu you & aishahh b dhh kwn balekk. yeahh, i don't mind bcoz im returning bckk her bestfriend to her. maybe she deserves you more better. i tkk rase cemburu or ape malahh im happy sgt2. you are really a good bestfriend. while typing sms, myy tears came out of sudden. promise mie to be strong & move on. jangan sedihh2. mesti tabahh menghadapi bahtera hidup. all de best fatin atiqahh, gonna miss you alot! once again, thanks alot for being suchh supporting bestfriend to mie. really miss dat moment. Tc beb- shidahh (:

• A good friend is someone we can count on, as well as beingso much more. A friend is someone with whom we can relaxand just hang out, have fun and share our innermost thoughts-- deep dark secrets, lofty and noble goals, or our hopes,joys, and fears. A good friend allows you a safe spaceto share your deepest thoughts and needs -- without worryof being judged, criticized or made to feel silly for feelingthe way you do. Friends cheer each other on, laugh and crytogether, and just plain commiserate and listen to each other.That's why friends are friend.
  

i promise i will be strong.

atin oh atin.